Resources on Death for Young Children, Families, and Educators

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Are you looking for resources that will help support young children cope with the death of a loved one? Recently, an early childhood educatorÌýÌýfor resources and ideas to support two young children who each had experienced the death of a family member. In response, many early educators chimed in and recommended a few children's books that could support the children, as well as resources for their families and caregivers. We have compiled a selection of thoseÌýbooks and resourcesÌýbelow.
Resources for ChildrenÌý
Ages 0-3
- I Miss You: A First Look at Death by Pat Thomas, illus. Leslie Harker
- The Dead Bird by Margaret Wise Brown
- The Goodbye Book by Todd Parr
Ages 3-5
- Badger's Parting Gifts by Susan Varley
- Grief is a Mess by Jackie Schuld
- I Miss You: A First Look at Death by Pat Thomas, illus. Leslie Harker
- The Dead Bird by Margaret Wise Brown
- The Goodbye Book by Todd Parr
- Tough Boris by Mem Fox, illus. Kathryn BrownÌý
- What Color Are Tears by Marianne Vandawalker
- When Someone Very Special Dies: Children Can Learn to Cope with Grief (Drawing Out Feelings Series)ÌýbyÌýMarge Heegaard
Ages 6-8
- A New Mother for Martha by Phyllis Green
- Aarvy Aardvark Finds Hope: A Read Aloud Story for People of All Ages About Loving and Losing, Friendship and Hope byÌýDonna R. O'Toole
- Am I Still a Sister? by Alicia M. Sims, illus. Jim MausÌý
- Badger's Parting Gifts by Susan Varley
- Children Are Not Paper Dolls byÌýErin Levy
- Geranium Morning byÌýE. Sandy Powell, illus. Renee GraefÌý
- Goodbye, Chicken Little by Betsy Byars
- Grief is a Mess by Jackie Schuld
- How It Feels When a Parent Dies by Jill Krementz
- I Miss You: A First Look at Death by Pat Thomas, illus. Leslie Harker
- Kids' Book about Death and Dying: By and For Kids byÌýEric E. Rofes
- Lifetimes: The Beautiful Way to Explain Death to ChildrenÌýbyÌýBryan MellonieÌýandÌýRobert Ingpen
- Losing Someone You Love: When a Brother or Sister Dies by Elizabeth Richter
- Love, Mark - A Journey Through GriefÌýby Mark Scravani
- My Brother Joey Died by Gloria Houston, illus.ÌýHarvey Kelman
- The Dead Bird by Margaret Wise Brown
- The Heart and the Bottle by Oliver Jeffers
- The Invisible String by Patrice Karst, illus. Geoff Stevenson
- Tough Boris by Mem Fox, illus. Kathryn Brown
- When People Die by Joanne E. Berstein, Stephen Gullo, and Rosmarie Hausherr
- When Someone Very Special Dies: Children Can Learn to Cope with Grief byÌýMarge Heegard
Resources for Families
- Bereaved Children and Teens: A Support Guide for Parents and ProfessionalsÌýbyÌýEarl A. Grollman
- Beyond Sympathy: What to Say and Do for Someone Suffering an Injury, Illness, or LossÌýbyÌýJanice Harris Lord
- Dear Parents: Letters to Bereaved ParentsÌýbyÌýCentering Corporation
- How Do We Tell the Children?: A Step-by-Step Guide for Helping Children and Teens Cope When Someone DiesÌýbyÌýDan Schaefer and Christine LyonsÌý
- Lifetimes: The Beautiful Way to Explain Death to ChildrenÌýbyÌýBryan MellonieÌýandÌýRobert Ingpen
- No Time For Goodbyes: Coping with Sorrow, Anger, and Injustice After a Tragic DeathÌýbyÌýJanice Harris Lord
- Talking about Death: A Dialogue between Parent and ChildÌýbyÌýEarl A. Grollman
Resources for Early Childhood Professionals
- Bereaved Children and Teens: A Support Guide for Parents and ProfessionalsÌýbyÌýEarl A. Grollman
- Beyond Sympathy: What to Say and Do for Someone Suffering an Injury, Illness, or LossÌýbyÌýJanice Harris Lord
- Healing Activities for Children in GriefÌýbyÌýGay McWhorter
- Lifetimes: The Beautiful Way to Explain Death to ChildrenÌýbyÌýBryan MellonieÌýandÌýRobert Ingpen
- Mending Hearts: When a School GrievesÌýbyÌýAmy R Murray,ÌýDavid L Barber
- No Time For Goodbyes: Coping with Sorrow, Anger, and Injustice After a Tragic DeathÌýbyÌýJanice Harris Lord
- What Color Are Tears by Marianne Vandawalker